Key ideas are taken from this video and I added my own blends on top: (note: I have uninstalled YouTube app afterward 🙂 )
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gh2m0dj_lFk
1. Preparation
Visualize, what will happen if I don’t change
- E.g., a patient will lead a bad life
- As a Muslim, I will waste the opportunities to make my hereafter better
Cut off: 4 types of things
- Apps
- ==delete all social media apps==, Netflix, ==block in your browser==
- In iPhone, you can block websites and give time limit to websites and app using:
settings->screen time-> app limits
- e.g., I read newspapers and I added time limits to newspaper websites to max 15 minutes per day
- and block all apps during a specific time of the day using
settings->screen time-> downtime
- Block images in your browser. In iPhone, I use an
Extension
to block images, you know, sometimes images catch the attention and wastes a lot of time! - Use browser plugins for your desktop browser
- We think we have will power, but do yourself a favor by blocking and deleting those apps
- Deleting apps, adding time limit to websites, blocking images and setting downtime for apps added huge productivity boost for me.
- Unhealthy sex
- pornography
- masturbation
- …
- Consumables
- alcohol
- recreational drugs etc.
- junk food
- Thrill seeking behavior
- gambling
- shopping sprees
- skydiving
How long to detox
- at least 7 days to 30 days
2. Execution
- you will feel bored, anxious
- as you are not using phone, internet
Use the time on other things
- learning
- spending time with good people
- persuing goals
3 practices every single day
- ==Self reflection==, where am I now, how much detox target I filled yesterday
- 10 minutes
- pray
- journaling
- We are so busy with fb, insta, that we can’t have time to think about ourselves
- 10 minutes
- Exercise
- 30-min walk
- Pray 5 times/day as a Muslim
- Exercise: Exercise keep us motivated
- ==Connect==
- talk to another living human being
- can be 5 min with parents, siblings, friends …
- Tell other person why you are doing dopamine detox
- talk to another living human being
3. Restoration
Before installing those apps back:
ask these questions:
- What the person I want to be?
- What that person spends his time doing?
- Does this app, subscription help to be the person I want to be? If not, then don’t install these apps
==keep using it every few months to hit a hard reset==
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